[spoilers] Harry and Ruth. The Wonder Years.

[Forever Secret]

But then again Ruth has always taken in every detail, which Harry doesn't always have time for, while Ruth focuses on the small details Harry always looks at the bigger picture, and when sometimes Ruth finds information that doesn't seem important, Harry would dimiss it, but that only really affects the professional relationship,
Maybe because of their personal relationship, Harry chooses to try and dimiss her opinion whenever he can so it doesn't seem like Ruth is clouding his judgement, it could be one of those "You only listened to Ruth because of your personal history with her"...
Harry said it himself "Our personal history doesnt mean you can question everything I ask you to do"
Maybe it's a way of Harry trying to get over their past... and a lot of the time it comes back to bit him